http://widow-speak.org/blog/2008/10/29/grief-as-transformation/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 06:20:08 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 http://widow-speak.org/blog/2008/10/29/grief-as-transformation/#comment-16178 Sh Sun, 16 Nov 2008 12:52:44 +0000 http://widow-speak.org/blog/2008/10/29/grief-as-transformation/#comment-16178 It never gets any easier --It's not been a year since my husband died and the days can be raw with grief and yet comfort does allow for happy times-the key I've found is just taking things one step at a time--sometimes only baby steps and don't think about tomorrow--just get past this day-you are not alone-many of us are going through this also--there are no pat answers just doing the best that you can is all that matters--take care--you are not alone!!! It never gets any easier –It’s not been a year since my husband died and the days can be raw with grief and yet comfort does allow for happy times-the key I’ve found is just taking things one step at a time–sometimes only baby steps and don’t think about tomorrow–just get past this day-you are not alone-many of us are going through this also–there are no pat answers just doing the best that you can is all that matters–take care–you are not alone!!!

]]> http://widow-speak.org/blog/2008/10/29/grief-as-transformation/#comment-16171 Barb/Beejay Fri, 31 Oct 2008 01:01:40 +0000 http://widow-speak.org/blog/2008/10/29/grief-as-transformation/#comment-16171 I still feel like I am in the cocoon...it has been a year and I don't think it is long enough for me to recover...so tell me how long does it take? I keep thinking maybe tomorrow will be better, but, it isn't...I am surviving...but that is all I am doing. I miss my husband more than people sometimes understand; but, then at this site, I think you all understand. I hope so. I still feel like I am in the cocoon…it has been a year and I don’t think it is long enough for me to recover…so tell me how long does it take? I keep thinking maybe tomorrow will be better, but, it isn’t…I am surviving…but that is all I am doing. I miss my husband more than people sometimes understand; but, then at this site, I think you all understand. I hope so.

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